Always try to see what is in her deepest heart”. “We easily see what is done to us before we see what we are doing to our mate”.“Whether it’s a husband or a wife who ‘doesn’t get it’, the answer is the same: we often don’t see the obvious”.“Right or wrong, men interpret their world through the respect grid, and a wife’s softened tone and facial expressions can do more for her marriage than she can imagine”.“While many wives do not intend to be disrespectful, they appear that way to their husbands, and their husbands take refuge in stonewalling them”.“The typical wife also fails to realize that her self-image often rests on what she believes her husband thinks of her”.“When he honors her as first in importance and she respects him as first among equals, their marriage works”.“The way to fully love a husband is to respect him in ways that are meaningful to him”.“Let me emphasize to wives that when men hear negative criticism, it doesn’t take them long to start interpreting that as contempt for who they are as men”.Often, we focus on our own needs and simply overlook the needs of the other person”.“What I say is not what you hear, and what you think you heard is not what I meant at all.“Craziness happens when we keep doing the same things over and over with the same ill effect”.The key to creating fond feelings of love in a husband toward his wife is through showing him unconditional respect”. “No husband feels affection toward a wife who appears to have contempt for who he is as a human being.(Perhaps the command to respect was given to her precisely for this reason!)” (Perhaps the command to love was given to him precisely for this reason!) When a wife feels unloved, she has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel disrespectful to her husband. “When a husband feels disrespected, he has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel unloving to his wife.“As I wrestled with the problem, I finally saw a connection: without love from him, she reacts without respect without respect from her, he reacts without love”.

“Husbands are made to be respected, want respect, and expect respect”.

“Wives are made to love, want to love, and expect love”.

“No husband feels fond feelings of affection and love in his heart when he believes his wife has contempt for who he is as a human being”.

“Yes, love is vital, especially for the wife, but what we have missed is the husband’s need for respect”.

“Often, we focus on our own needs and simply overlook the needs of the other person”.

When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband”.

“When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife.

“Wives are made to love, want to love, and expect love. Husbands are made to be respected, want respect, and expect respect”.

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Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs